Matthew Spira
1 min readJan 30, 2020

If we’re talking about straight, unattached (and unfortunately many who *are* attached) men who want to be your friend, I think it’s a good bet of those who manage to do all the things to place themselves in your “friend zone,” most if not all would jump at the chance to have sex with you if offered.

#notallmen perhaps, but then unicorns who fart rainbows might also exist.

I have no illusions that I would necessarily be any different. I do try very hard to respect boundaries and these days I limit my attempts to find romantic interests to dating websites where intent is unambiguous. Otherwise, I don’t try to be “friends,” but “friendly.”

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Matthew Spira
Matthew Spira

Written by Matthew Spira

Middle-aged dude. Combat veteran & single father. Eclectic career. Poet.

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